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Cancel Carpe: The Right Way
How to cancel your carpe membership and recover your money
What is carpe and why you might want to cancel
Carpe (operating as Carpe Diem Social, Inc., commonly called CarpeDM) is a video-first matchmaking service that pairs human-guided matchmakers with a mobile app to deliver curated introductions to people seeking serious relationships. You get verified member profiles, video-first dates, and a dedicated matchmaker who actively works to find compatible partners for you. The service operates through both a membership subscription model and in-app purchases, with billing tied to your chosen membership tier.
You might want to cancel Carpe for several legitimate reasons: you've found a partner, the matchmaker service isn't delivering quality introductions, your subscription auto-renewed without clear notice, or you simply want to pause your membership while you explore other options. Whatever your reason, Stopee is here to walk you through the cancellation process step-by-step so you understand your rights and recover any refunds you're entitled to.
How carpe structures its membership and billing
Carpe's membership model combines a fixed subscription tier with the promise of curated video introductions and ongoing matchmaker support. The company uses individualized pricing at the point of sale, meaning your membership cost may differ from another subscriber's based on promotions, package selection, or timing. Your subscription may renew automatically unless you explicitly cancel, and certain membership levels carry nonrefundable components-particularly onboarding or service initiation fees.
Understanding your specific contract terms is essential because Carpe's refund policy ties directly to what you purchased. If you paid for a 3-month membership tier, a certain number of introductions, or a matchmaker retainer, your cancellation rights and refund eligibility depend on how far into the contract period you are and whether your state recognizes cooling-off periods for matchmaking services.
Why the timing and method of cancellation matters
Carpe's terms disclose that some jurisdictions grant a three-day cancellation right for certain relationship services. However, this right only applies if you meet specific conditions: the company must have clearly disclosed the cooling-off right in writing before you signed, you must cancel within three calendar days of purchase, and you must cancel using the method specified in your contract. Failing to use the correct cancellation method or missing a state-specific deadline can cost you hundreds of dollars.
At Stopee, we emphasize that cancellation method matters as much as timing. If you cancel via email when the contract requires certified mail, or if you cancel through the app when the company's terms require a formal written notice, the company may claim your cancellation is invalid and continue billing you.