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Cancel Hily: The Right Way
How to cancel hily and protect your dating app investment
What hily is and why you might want to leave
Hily is a dating app and web platform designed to help you connect with potential matches through compatibility tools, messaging and curated suggestions. The service operates globally, including New Zealand, and is available through the Apple App Store, Google Play Store and directly via the Hily website.
Hily offers both free and premium subscription tiers. Free users access basic matching, while paid members unlock features like unlimited messaging, profile visibility boosts and priority placement in search results. If you've signed up for a paid plan and now want to exit, you're not alone-and Stopee is here to guide you through the cancellation process.
When cancelling hily makes sense
You might decide to cancel Hily for several reasons: you've found a relationship, the matches aren't what you expected, you're taking a break from dating, or you simply don't want recurring charges hitting your account. Whatever your reason, cancelling quickly protects your wallet and prevents surprise renewals.
The critical thing to understand is that uninstalling the app or deleting your account does not cancel your subscription. You must actively cancel through the platform where you originally subscribed-Apple, Google, or Hily directly. Many New Zealand users discover unwanted charges months later because they skipped this step. Stopee's guidance will help you avoid that trap.
Key facts about hily in new zealand
Hily is operated by Hily Corp., a United States-based company. The service is available to New Zealand residents and charges are typically processed in NZD through your chosen payment method. All subscription management flows through either Apple, Google or Hily's own systems-there is no separate New Zealand office or local support address, so your cancellation request will be handled centrally.
Hily subscription plans and pricing
Understanding your plan type helps you know exactly where to cancel and what to expect after you do.
Current hily pricing tiers
| Plan | Cost (NZD, approximate) | Key features | Billing cycle |
|---|---|---|---|
| Free | $0 | Basic matching, limited messages | No charge |
| Premium (monthly) | $14-$18/month | Unlimited messaging, visibility boosts, priority search | Monthly auto-renewal |
| Premium (annual) | $60-$80/year | Same as monthly, better per-month value | Annual auto-renewal |
| Premium Plus | $24-$30/month | All Premium features plus profile review, super-boosts | Monthly auto-renewal |
| Incognito (monthly add-on) | $8-$12/month | Browse incognito, avoid appearing in searches | Monthly auto-renewal |
Prices vary depending on your device, location and any active promotions. Most importantly, all paid plans auto-renew on your billing date unless you cancel. Stopping the cancellation process before your renewal date is crucial to avoid unexpected charges.
Why hily pricing matters to your cancellation decision
If you're on an annual plan, you may have paid $60-$80 upfront and now face a long wait until your next billing date. If you're on a monthly plan, your renewal may be just days away. Stopee recommends cancelling immediately if you've decided you no longer want the service-the sooner you act, the fewer surprise renewals you'll face.
Your consumer rights under new zealand law
New Zealand's Consumer Guarantees Act and Fair Trading Act protect you when subscribing to digital services.
What the consumer guarantees act means for you
Under the Consumer Guarantees Act 1993, digital services must be of acceptable quality, fit for purpose and supplied within a reasonable time. If Hily fails to deliver the features you paid for, or if you experience recurring technical issues that make the service unusable, you may have grounds to request a refund or cancellation without penalty.
Additionally, traders in New Zealand must not engage in misleading or deceptive conduct. If Hily's marketing promised features that the app doesn't deliver, or if the cancellation process is deliberately hidden, you can escalate to the Commerce Commission.
Your right to cancel and seek refunds
You have the right to cancel any subscription, but refund eligibility depends on where you purchased and how long ago you subscribed. Stopee's step-by-step methods below will show you how to request refunds through the correct channels. If Hily or Apple or Google refuses to help, your final escalation point is the Commerce Commission or your local consumer protection authority.
How to cancel hily on iOS (Apple app store)
If you subscribed through Apple, you must cancel through Apple's own settings-Hily cannot cancel Apple subscriptions for you.
Step-by-step cancellation on iPhone or iPad
- Open the Settings app on your iPhone or iPad.
- Tap your name at the top of the screen.
- Select Subscriptions.
- Find Hily in your subscriptions list.
- Tap on Hily.
- Review your plan details and next billing date.
- Tap Cancel Subscription and follow the prompts.
- Apple may offer a retention discount or ask why you're leaving.
- Proceed with cancellation regardless.
- Confirm the cancellation.
- Apple will display a confirmation message.
- You'll retain access to Hily's premium features until the end of your current billing cycle.
- Take a screenshot of the cancellation confirmation.
- This proof protects you if charges continue after cancellation.
- Save it to your phone or email it to yourself.
Pro tip: Apple processes cancellations immediately in their system, but it can take up to 24 hours for Hily to be notified. If a charge appears after that window, contact Apple Support with your screenshot.
Warning: Deleting the Hily app from your home screen does not cancel the subscription. You must complete the steps above.
If apple refuses to refund or help
Contact Apple Support directly via support.apple.com. Explain that you cancelled but were charged, and provide your screenshot. If Apple still declines, escalate to the Commerce Commission or file a chargeback with your bank as a last resort.
How to cancel hily on android (Google play store)
Google Play subscriptions are managed separately from Hily itself, so you must cancel through the Google Play Store app or website.
Step-by-step cancellation on android devices
- Open the Google Play Store app on your Android phone or tablet.
- Tap your profile icon in the top right corner.
- Select Payments & subscriptions.
- Tap Subscriptions from the menu.
- This shows all your active subscriptions across all apps.
- Select Hily from the list.
- You'll see your plan type, next billing date and payment method.
- Tap Cancel subscription.
- Google may ask for feedback or offer a retention deal.
- Continue with cancellation.
- Confirm the cancellation.
- Google will send you a confirmation email within minutes.
- Your premium access continues until the end of your billing period.
- Save your confirmation email.
- This is your proof of cancellation if any disputes arise later.
Pro tip: Google Play allows you to request a refund within 48 hours of starting a new subscription. If you cancelled within that window and were overcharged, you can request a full refund through Play Store support.
Warning: If you uninstall Hily without cancelling through Google Play, the subscription will continue to auto-renew and you'll be charged on your next billing date.
How to cancel hily web subscriptions
If you subscribed directly through the Hily website rather than through Apple or Google, you must contact Hily support to cancel.
Step-by-step cancellation for web-based subscriptions
- Open the Hily app or visit the Hily website.
- Log in to your account.
- Navigate to the in-app chat or support section.
- Some apps show a help or settings icon.
- Look for "Contact support" or a chat bubble icon.
- Compose your cancellation request.
- Include your account email address.
- Mention your subscription plan (Premium, Premium Plus, etc.).
- Include your order or receipt number if you have it.
- Keep the message clear and direct: "I want to cancel my subscription effective immediately."
- Alternatively, email support@hily.com with the same details.
- Use the same account email address you registered with.
- This creates an official record of your request.
- Wait for Hily's response.
- Hily typically responds within 24 to 48 hours.
- They will confirm cancellation and may ask follow-up questions.
- Save all correspondence.
- Screenshot or print emails confirming your cancellation.
- Keep these for at least 6 months in case of disputes.
Pro tip: Send your cancellation email during New Zealand business hours if possible, so Hily support responds faster. Include "CANCEL SUBSCRIPTION" in your email subject line to flag your request urgently.
Warning: Some web subscriptions process immediately, others finish at your next billing date. Ask Hily explicitly when your cancellation takes effect to avoid surprise charges.
What happens after you cancel hily
Cancelling doesn't mean instant loss of access-you still have time to use what you paid for.
Your access timeline after cancellation
Once you cancel, you retain full access to all premium features until the end of your current billing period. For example, if you cancel on 15 May and your billing date is 30 May, you can use premium features right up until 29 May at midnight. After that, your account automatically reverts to the free tier and you lose features like unlimited messaging and profile boosts.
This grace period is standard across Apple, Google and Hily's web platform. It protects you from losing paid features mid-month while also protecting Hily from being refunded for services already rendered.
Auto-renewal and what stops when you cancel
Auto-renewal terminates immediately upon cancellation, so you won't be charged again on your next billing date. Your free account remains active unless you deliberately delete your profile. You can still log in, send and receive messages (within free limits) and browse matches-you simply lose the paid enhancements.
Stopee's research shows that many users cancel thinking they'll delete their account automatically. They don't. If you want to remove your profile entirely from Hily's servers, you must follow a separate account deletion process inside the app or contact Hily support to request it.
Data retention after cancellation
Cancelling your subscription does not delete your account or personal data. Hily retains your profile, chat history, matches and photos until you explicitly request account deletion. If you want a complete digital separation from the platform, you must request account deletion after cancelling. This is particularly important if privacy is a concern for you.
Can you get a refund from hily
Refund eligibility depends on where you subscribed, how long ago and the reason you're cancelling.
Hily's general refund policy
Hily does not automatically refund unused portions of your subscription. If you cancel on day 5 of a 30-day billing cycle, you do not receive a pro-rata refund for the remaining 25 days. Unused credits or premium features expire with no compensation. This policy is typical for subscription services, but New Zealand consumer law provides exceptions.
Platform-specific refund rules and exceptions
| Platform | Refund window | Refund process | Success rate |
|---|---|---|---|
| Apple App Store (iOS) | Varies by case; typically 90 days | Request via Apple Support; Hily cannot process refunds | Good (first request often approved) |
| Google Play Store (Android) | 48 hours from subscription start | Request through Play Store app; Google decides | Very good (auto-approved within window) |
| Hily website | Varies; contact support | Email support@hily.com with proof of purchase | Moderate (depends on reason and age) |
Important: Apple and Google handle refunds independently of Hily. Hily cannot refund App Store or Play Store purchases-only Apple and Google can. This is a critical distinction that many New Zealand users misunderstand.
How to request a refund
- Identify where you subscribed.
- Check your payment method and billing history.
- Was it Apple, Google or the Hily website?
- For Apple purchases, visit support.apple.com.
- Click "Report a problem" under the relevant Hily charge.
- Select "I'd like a refund for this purchase."
- Choose your reason (e.g., "I did not authorize this charge" or "The app does not match the description").
- Submit and wait for Apple's decision within 5 to 10 business days.
- For Google Play purchases, open the Play Store app.
- Go to Payments & subscriptions → Subscriptions.
- Select Hily and tap Cancel subscription.
- If within 48 hours, immediately request a refund via the Play Store support link.
- Google typically approves these instantly.
- For Hily website purchases, email support@hily.com.
- Include your order number, purchase date and account email.
- Explain your reason clearly (e.g., "Service did not work as described" or "I was charged twice").
- Hily will review your case and respond within 48 to 72 hours.
- If the platform refuses, escalate to your bank or card provider.
- File a chargeback or dispute with your card issuer as a final recourse.
- Provide screenshots of your cancellation confirmation as evidence.
Pro tip: Document everything from day one. Save your receipt, screenshots of charges and confirmation emails. These prove your case if a refund dispute arises.
Common mistakes when cancelling hily
Cancellation frustration is real-thousands of New Zealand users have struggled with this process. Here's how to avoid the pitfalls Stopee sees most often.
Mistake 1: uninstalling the app without cancelling the subscription
Deleting the Hily app from your phone does nothing to stop charges. Your subscription continues to auto-renew in Apple, Google or Hily's system. You'll discover the charge weeks later when reviewing your bank statement. Always cancel through the store first, then uninstall if you wish.
Mistake 2: cancelling your account instead of your subscription
Deleting your Hily account (removing your profile) is separate from cancelling your subscription. You can delete your account and still be charged if your subscription remains active. Handle subscription cancellation first, account deletion second. Stopee recommends spacing these by 24 hours so you can confirm the subscription is gone before erasing your profile.
Mistake 3: not keeping cancellation proof
If you don't save a screenshot or confirmation email, you have no evidence of cancellation if charges continue. Companies rely on users forgetting their own cancellation requests. Take proof immediately and store it safely-in your email, cloud storage or a notes app.
Mistake 4: cancelling too close to your billing date
If your renewal is tomorrow and you cancel today, the charge may still go through because the system processes it overnight. If you know your renewal date is imminent, cancel at least 2 to 3 days in advance to allow processing time. Check your confirmation email for the exact cancellation effective date.
Mistake 5: assuming apple or google will refund you automatically
Cancelling a subscription does not trigger an automatic refund. You must request a refund separately, even if you cancel immediately after charging. Many users think they'll get their money back by stopping the subscription-they won't. File a refund request if you believe you're entitled to one.
Hily cancellation checklist and timeline
Use this checklist to ensure you cancel correctly and protect yourself from further charges.
Before you cancel
- Check your current Hily plan type (Premium, Premium Plus, etc.).
- Note your next billing date.
- Verify where you subscribed (Apple, Google or Hily website).
- Take a screenshot of your current subscription status.
- Gather your order or receipt number if available.
Day of cancellation
- Follow the platform-specific steps above (iOS, Android or web).
- Complete the cancellation process and wait for confirmation.
- Take a screenshot of the confirmation message.
- Note the time and date of cancellation.
- Save any confirmation email from Apple, Google or Hily.
After cancellation (24 to 48 hours)
- Log back into Hily and verify your subscription status shows as "cancelled" or "free tier".
- Check your email for any confirmation messages from the payment platform.
- Monitor your bank account or card for unexpected charges.
- Keep all proof in a safe location for at least 6 months.
If issues arise
- If you're charged after cancellation, contact the payment platform immediately (Apple Support or Google Play support).
- Provide your cancellation proof and request a refund.
- If the payment platform refuses, escalate to your bank or the Commerce Commission.
Escalation: what to do if hily won't cancel or refund you
If you've followed Stopee's guidance and Hily or the payment platform still refuses to cancel or refund, you have legal recourse in New Zealand.
Your escalation steps
- Gather all evidence.
- Collect screenshots, emails, receipts and proof of cancellation attempts.
- Document dates, times and the names of support staff you spoke to.
- Contact the Commerce Commission (comcom.govt.nz).
- File a complaint if you believe Hily or the payment platform breached the Consumer Guarantees Act or Fair Trading Act.
- The Commission can investigate and force refunds or compliance.
- File a chargeback with your bank or card provider.
- Explain that you cancelled but were charged without authorisation.
- Provide your cancellation proof as evidence.
- Your bank will reverse the charge pending investigation.
- Consider small claims court if the amount is significant.
- The District Court in New Zealand handles consumer disputes under $350,000.
- Small claims processes are simpler and cheaper than standard litigation.
Pro tip: Always exhaust the payment platform's (Apple, Google) refund process before escalating to the Commerce Commission. They often approve refunds more quickly than going straight to regulators.
Should you cancel hily, or is there an alternative
Before hitting cancel, consider whether a temporary pause might better suit your situation.
Reasons to cancel entirely
- You've found a relationship and no longer need dating services.
- You're frustrated with the quality of matches or the app's functionality.
- You want to save money and don't plan to date for several months.
- You prefer a competitor dating app and want to consolidate.
Reasons to pause instead of cancel
- You're temporarily busy but might return in a few weeks.
- You want to explore other apps without permanently deleting your Hily profile and matches.
- You'd like to avoid re-subscribing fees if you change your mind soon.
Hily allows you to pause your profile (making it invisible to others) while keeping your subscription active. This costs nothing extra and preserves your account for later. If that suits your needs, it's simpler than full cancellation and refund battles. However, Stopee always recommends cancelling if you won't use the service within 30 days-why pay for something you don't want?
Contact hily and escalation address
If you need to reach Hily directly regarding cancellation or account issues, here are your options.
Hily support contact details
Email: support@hily.com
In-app support: Open Hily, locate the help or settings menu and select "Contact support" or use the in-app chat feature.
Web-based support: Visit the Hily website and look for a "Contact us" link (usually in the footer).
Mailing address (United States): Hily does not provide a separate New Zealand address. All correspondence is handled through the contact methods above. If you need to escalate legally, your recourse is through the Commerce Commission in New Zealand or small claims court, not through direct mailing to Hily.
Response times
Hily typically responds to support emails and in-app messages within 24 to 48 hours during business hours. Response times may be slower on weekends or public holidays. In-app chat often provides faster responses than email.
Pro tip: If Hily doesn't respond within 72 hours, escalate your complaint to the Commerce Commission. They can force Hily to respond and comply with consumer law.
Final summary: cancel hily confidently
Cancelling a subscription shouldn't be stressful, but companies often make it so. Stopee has helped thousands of New Zealand consumers cancel unwanted services and recover refunds. Hily cancellation is straightforward if you follow the platform-specific steps above and keep proof of your actions.
Remember: uninstalling the app is not cancellation. Deleting your account is not cancellation. You must cancel the subscription itself through Apple, Google or Hily's support team. Once you've done that, monitor your next billing date to confirm no charge appears. If it does, you have grounds for a refund under the Consumer Guarantees Act.
Stopee's step-by-step guides, checklists and escalation paths are designed to remove the guesswork and protect your rights. Whether you're on iOS, Android or the web platform, the process is within your control. Take action today, keep your proof, and reclaim peace of mind about your subscriptions. Stopee is here to ensure you cancel on your own terms.